When
people are in conflict, a number of emotions can be experienced:
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Anger
Revenge
Pain
Loss
Numbness |
Panic
Betrayal
Injured Pride
Fear
Devastation |
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These
emotions are normal. However, overwhelming emotions can impair
your ability to make sound decisions that may affect the rest
of your life. You can do something about it.
WHY
MEDIATION?
YOU
GAIN CONTROL
By
choosing MEDIATION you are more likely to end up with a settlement
that you can live with because...
1.
You control negotiations directly with the other side rather than
relying on third party interpretation or communication for
you.
2.
Your mediator guides you to resources that enable you to make
well-informed decisions.
3.
Your mediator has a network of other professionals to help you
with legal questions, real estate, financial, tax and even
emotional support decisions.
4.
MEDIATION lets you, not others, control the pace, costs and cash-flow
during the process.
(98%
of ACCORD clients successfully reach a settlement)
YOU
MAINTAIN RELATIONSHIPS
When
it is likely that you will have some form of relationship with
the other person, such as the father or mother of your children,
or a co-worker or supervisor, choosing MEDIATION enables you to...
1.
Reduce the possibility of prolonged anger toward the other person.
2.
Cooperatively deal with financial issues that may link you and
the other person for many years down the road, such as
power-of-attorney, child support payments,
settlement agreements, or pensions.
3.
Face the other person during family events or work-related meetings.
4.
Be role models for your children, colleagues or employees.
5.
Be more creative with settlement agreements than if you were to
act as adversaries.
Ideally,
with both parties in mediation, a business-like relationship can
evolve that serves to reduce the stress for all who are involved
and results in agreements that are more easily adhered to.
| "Thanks
for your help with all of this. It made something that
is difficult go pretty
smoothly
and helped us to remain friends. I appreciate it."
J.D. |
YOU
SAVE TIME
The
average contested case involving litigation takes 1 to 2 years
to complete. Many take much longer. That is a long time to endure
a highly stressful situation.
HOWEVER...
For
matters such as an uncontested divorce, the mediation process
can be completed in weeks. For simpler matters, issues can be
resolved in days.
1.
You and the other party are negotiating face-to-face rather than
waiting for others to advocate and negotiate for you.
2.
95 % of mediated matters never end up in the courtroom. There
is a 90% compliance rate with mediated cases.
3.
Mediated agreements are generally accepted by the courts as they
normally reflect the agreements of both parties.
4.
In mediation, the agenda is spelled out to both parties and everyone
receives the same information at the same time.
YOU
SAVE MONEY
The
first rule of any legal battle is that it costs a lot of money
to fight. Mediation may not eliminate the need for attorneys but
it does put the bulk of the workload into your hands. As a result,
you can save considerable money. By working cooperatively,
both parties can actually come out ahead.
DURING
THE MEDIATION PROCESS, PARTICIPANTS:
•
Discuss
areas of concern
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Consider
each other’s point of view
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Explore
options
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Agree
on solutions that are realistic and long-lasting
Whether your matter involves family issues such as reconciliation
or divorce, elder
care arrangements or guardianship,
or financial issues such as personal
injury matters, home
construction disputes, or business
partnership conflicts, mediation offers several features:
•
Clients
engage in a joint, cooperative problem-solving process at their
own pace
•
A
neutral mediator helps parties negotiate a resolution or settlement
that is equitable and realistic
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Generally,
the mediation cases are scheduled very quickly and resolution
is reached in a reasonable timeline
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ACCORD
clients have access to resources and a referral network in the
areas of law, real estate, taxes and finance,
and counseling
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At conclusion, clients have a written summary of their negotiated
decisions called a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU),
which is converted into a legally binding contract, if applicable
to their case.
Rather than adversarial methods or avoidance tactics, mediation
provides several benefits:
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It
helps to keep line of communication open, especially when parties
are likely to continue some degree of relationship with
each other
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It
is very affordable
•
It
can help resolve issues quickly
•
It
empowers participants to make their own decisions
•
It
is confidential
Common Matters for Mediation
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Victim
vs. Offender Restitution Cases
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Marital
Separation or Divorce
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Article
81 Guardianship
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Interpersonal
Conflicts
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Custody
and Visitation
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Child
and Parent Issues
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ADA
and Discrimination Claims
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Mergers
and Dissolutions
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Business
Partnership Conflicts
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Property
Damage
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Estate
Planning
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Senior
Care
•
Breach
of Contract between Businesses
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Environmental
Settlements
•
Employment
Issues
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Labor
Contract Negotiations
•
Insurance Claims
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Prenuptial,
Postnuptial, Palimony or Living-together Agreements
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