FINANCES
and MONEY MANAGEMENT
Financial
problems are among the leading causes of divorce and relationship
breakups. Unemployment, insufficient income, over-spending, and
lack of self-discipline are common causes of most financial problems
today. The results are strained relationships, potential bankruptcy,
and feelings of failure and frustration. A solution is ACCORD’s
exclusive MoneyWorks Plan™
in which mediation is used to help couples create plan to get
out of debt and begin building their assets. ACCORD’s network
of financial professionals are available to our clients who want
to begin taking charge of their financial circumstances in order
to rebuild financial stability and security.
CHILD
CUSTODY, VISITATION and CHILD SUPPORT
| When
facing the ending of a relationship, it is imperative to prioritize
the needs of the children before the needs of the parents.
In an article written by Carolyn Bryson, "Mom,
Dad: Are You Getting a Divorce?" she offers parents
suggestions about how to help children transition and how
to parent children residing in
separate households. |
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Mediation
is used to help families reach agreements about decision-making
authority concerning when the children will reside with each parent,
as well as how the children will share the holidays with each
parent. Arrangements such as child support, daycare, summer camp,
costs of medical insurance, uninsured medical expenses, and negotiated
child tax exemptions and head of household are typical discussions
that are including in the separation agreement.
INTERPERSONAL
CONFLICTS
Conflicts
are the result of how individuals communicate and interpret messages
exchanged with one another. Most people are afraid of conflict,
and either avoid it or are confrontational. However, conflict
can lead to very positive and rewarding outcomes. Mediation is
a process in which a professional helps people convey their needs
and desires in a way that can be heard and acted upon. It is a
process that helps to preserve relationships while providing individuals
with an opportunity to learn more effective communication skills.
STEPFAMILIES
and UNMARRIED PARENTS
Today's
demanding lifestyles and complex culture causes incredible stress
on the family unit. Misunderstandings and communication problems
are common complaints among family members. Mediation can be a
process for families to find solutions to all types of issues,
such as:
•
Co-parenting
issues, including blended families and stepparenting
•
Grandparents having authority to make parenting decisions
•
Extended family visitation schedules
•
Children with special needs
•
Child behaviors, truancy and discipline
•
Family finances, credit card and household budget
The following links may offer some additional information for
your particular situation:
Court
Appointed Special Advocates (CASA)
Marriage
Encounters of Rochester
Assisting
Children in Transition (ACT)
Equal
Rights for Fathers |
